Do You Ever Wake Up Feeling Unmotivated?
We’ve all had those mornings — where you wake up with a heavy heart, wondering, “What’s the point of trying today?”
Not just physical tiredness, but emotional fatigue. The kind of feeling that seeps into your thoughts and makes your goals seem far away.
I’ve been there too. In fact, it happened to me recently. I woke up feeling flat and discouraged, and before I even got out of bed, I noticed a stream of negative self-talk quietly running in the background. It wasn’t even about my whole life, just one small area,but it had the power to poison my entire outlook.
That experience reminded me of something deeply important…
The Power of Awareness and Self-Talk
Our inner voice is incredibly powerful. It can either build us up or tear us down and often, we don’t even realize it’s happening.
That morning, something shifted.
I noticed the negative spiral starting… and in that awareness, I found a doorway to change.
I remembered that I didn’t need to fix everything right away.
I didn’t have to pretend to feel good.
What I needed was to simply be kind to myself.
That first act of self-compassion was all it took to soften the heaviness and create the space I needed to take my next step.
When You Feel Stuck, Try a Gentle Morning Reset
Over the years, I’ve created a simple 5-step morning routine to help shift energy on days like this. I think of it as a “toolbox”. You may not need every tool, every time, but there’s always one that helps.
If you’ve ever felt stuck, low or unmotivated in the morning, I invite you to try it. Choose one step or all five and let it meet you where you are.
5 Steps to Shift from Unmotivated to Empowered
1. Start with Self-Compassion
Begin your day with gentleness.
Say to yourself:
“It’s okay to feel this way. I don’t need to fix everything right now.”
When you release the pressure to feel better, you often begin to.
2. Create One Tiny Win
Do something small and achievable:
- Drink a glass of water
- Make your bed
- Stretch for 30 seconds
Even the smallest success gives your mind and body a sense of movement.
3. Reconnect with What Matters
Ask yourself:
- “What would help me feel more grounded today?”
- “What small thing could bring peace or meaning?”
- “Is there someone I want to show up for, even if that someone is me?”
This step shifts your mindset from pressure to purpose.
4. Move Gently
Physical movement naturally lifts mental energy.
Take a short walk, sway to music, or do a few stretches.
Let your body guide you toward momentum.
5. Begin a Mini Ritual
Create something comforting and consistent:
- Light a candle
- Play a favorite morning song
- Speak a positive affirmation aloud
This becomes your daily anchor, a moment just for you.
From Slow Start to Empowered Day
If you’ve been feeling stuck or discouraged lately, please know this:
You are not broken. You are human.
We all have days that begin in stillness or struggle but those mornings can still lead to empowered, meaningful days. You don’t need to force motivation. Just begin gently.
Even one small step is enough to shift the energy.
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Hi, I am Art Kuhns Owner of Breaking Day Hypnotherapy.
I am a certified Hypnotherapist from Hypnosis Motivation Institute (HMI) and a Reiki Master/ Teacher
My roots being in energy healing, I know that true healing is holistic. The healing must be Mind/Emotion, Body and Spiritual to be complete. My motto became, “Reiki Infused Hypnotherapy for your Ultimate Success”
I am members of these associations:
Toastmaster member since 2014 / currently officer of local club
International Certification Board for Clinical Hypnotherapists (ICBCH)
National Association of Transpersonal Hypnotherapist (NATH)
